Within the scope of my life, I have always been true to myself, something that has gotten gradually harder and more convoluted to do. The reason is that my personal self has split like a tree growing branches. Leading to who I am to a great part to spread wide and reach far. It is sometimes confusing when I look at two distant branches because even though they come from the same tree, they are two very different sides of me.
I have a self; that is both static and dynamic. Like various settings on a tv, I have different optimal settings for various situations. When I look how far apart they are sometimes, I get confused. A lot of the time, how I act is wholly dependent on where I was in life when I met the person and what worked best with the relationship. Though my inner changes and grows as a whole, a lot of the nuances will stay the same. Take for instance, with the people I met at college, the conversations goes deep into philosophy, psychology, history, and the way the world works, with a combination of sarcasm and witticisms. Where those who I had met before, I tend to be more inclined to be more reserved with ideas, concentrating more on the event and having fun than all the world’s problems. Now these are examples of some of the things that stand out to me about these relationships but by no means the entire picture. These persons I am are all equally me, but in some ways separate from each other. Causing concern if they were ever to connect, what would be the result of the personality collision.
I have come to a place where there are large distinctions of who I am and what I can do. It is strange, when interacting with those I met through college, that assure me of my ability and believe that I will achieve what I want to achieve in both schooling and life. Those I met before or outside of schooling have a different notion. Not that the concept is wrong, but it’s fascinating to see the difference. We all grew up in a variety of ways and met each other at various times, so maybe it is the role we are destined to play in each other lives.
What has me mulling over this thought is how to I unite these branched selves, so people see the tree and not the branches if that is necessary. It’s a confusing conundrum, bringing it all together so that it doesn’t feel so disjointed when interacting on all of these separate planes. In some part, people can’t be contained to one context alone, but the process of learning them all takes time and effort.
The amalgamation of who I am and what I do will eventually coalesce into the person I intend to be, I just have to hope that people will be there to accept me on the other side.